What you learn and do in dance class is a reflection of and shapes your life. And the first thing you need to know is that “you can’t say you can’t!”
My Zumba Strip Cardio instructor in Peurto Vallarta was hardcore. But everything she said made sense. The mind and the body are one, so whatever the mind knows it can do, the body does. And she stuck with this principle throughout each routine. If you didn’t do a move right, she’d glare right at you and make you do it until you got it right!
The high intensity workout consisted of Salsa, Samba, Jazz, Bellydance, Tango, Hip-Hop, and sexy cabaret using a chair. I absolutely LOVED it! She taught a move on the floor where you stick your butt in the air (very Velina-esque) and she said “you learn this move and your boyfriend or husband will buy you jewelry!” She was being tongue-and-cheek but we all had a good laugh as we awkwardly tried to make it look as smooth as her. I discovered new moves and interpretations of music and was having so much fun I forgot I was working out – even with what felt like gallons of sweat pouring out of me!
The class was small, with one middle-aged, Spanish-speaking woman and what appeared to be a mother and her 20-something-year-old daughter. Near the end of the class, the teacher told us to work with our chairs and dance “whatever we feel” using the combos we learned that day. I challenged myself to remember the new moves while incorporating a sexy flair to my dance. The daughter started getting into it for the first minute or so but then withdrew herself and stood in the back to watch. At the end of class, the instructor asked the daughter “what happened? Why didn’t you do the exercise?” The daughter shyly responded, “I didn’t want to… I couldn’t do it”.
The instructor was understanding but gave her amazing advice. She said, “It’s okay to be shy sometimes, but in dance class is where you can explore yourself. People come in here afraid to touch themselves. Then they do it and they discover “Wow, I have legs, and I have arms, and I have breasts!”… We are all sexual, sensual, love and FEEL until the day we die! Don’t deny yourself the pleasures we are given! And learn about yourself and don’t be ashamed about your body. It is YOURS! All of you, women, your body is your own to understand and enjoy!”
I almost cried. I loved her. I had spent the past 4 days learning about how to empower youth and adults about sex and sensuality, and this woman does it every day… in dance class.